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The Forgotten Skill of Waiting

We live in an age of one-click orders, instant messages, and streaming everything. If the Wi-Fi lags, we fidget. If a text takes too long, we overthink. Somewhere along the way, waiting became an inconvenience—something to avoid at all costs.

But here’s the quiet truth: waiting is not wasted time. Waiting is where the unseen work happens. It’s where character deepens, ideas mature, and faith roots itself.

Think about it:

  • A flower takes its time to unfurl, petal by petal.
  • Bread dough must rise slowly to reach its full flavor.
  • Even the sunrise requires patience—its light edging across the horizon, never rushed.

Waiting, though uncomfortable, is where beauty brews.

Three Ways to Relearn the Art of Waiting

✨ Transform Small Delays into Mini Retreats
At red lights, in grocery lines, or when the coffee brews—pause. Instead of scrolling, breathe deeply, look around, and notice something beautiful.

✨ Reframe the Long Seasons
Whether you’re waiting for healing, clarity, or answered prayers, shift your perspective: waiting isn’t absence—it’s preparation. Ask, What might this season be shaping in me?

✨ Practice Slow Joy
Cook a recipe that requires time. Read a novel instead of a highlight reel. Journal a page by hand. Activities that demand patience strengthen our capacity for it.

In scripture, waiting is never idle—it’s faithful. “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him.” (Psalm 37:7)

The heart of waiting is trust—trust that what is unseen is still unfolding. Trust that what is becoming will be worth the pause.

Tomorrow, when you find yourself waiting—at school pickup, at your desk, in a season of unanswered prayers—don’t rush to fill the silence. Instead, lean into it. Let waiting become a teacher instead of a thief.

We spend our lives trying to cut waiting out, but what if it’s the very thing we need most? To breathe. To notice. To trust. To live more fully right where we are.

Waiting, after all, is not the opposite of living—it’s part of it.

With grace & gratitude,
Jenny

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